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Reminiscing About Eid Holidays

While eid can be an occasion for fun and festivity for most, it can also be somewhat exhausting for some. This exhaustion mostly stems from the emotional toll borne as a result of staying with family for extended periods of time. It can be tiresome because having more than usual family time reawakens many wounds of the past that one tries to constantly bury deep inside one's unconscious mind.  For me eid, or any other holidays for that matter, can be triggering as hell. I had a pretty sad childhood growing up and having to put up with family members who were somehow responsible for the trauma can be quitr damaging for one's mental health. Since, such gathering can't altogether be avoided, I try to come up with boundaries with my family so as to limit the damage as much as I can. This isn't always helpful though because one has feelings of ambivalence towards one's parents and siblings: on the one hand, we know that they are toxic to certain extent and need to get av...

Book Review: The Picture of Dorian Gray

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I read this novel a while back but didn't get a chance to post its review here, so here it goes:  The novel is a story of a young man, Dorian Gray, who gets his portrait made by a renowned artist, Basil Hallward, and the portrait in question eventually becomes the reason for his ruin. In the beginning, the character of Dorian Gray is introduced to us as a youth possessing astonishing charm and beauty. It's his beauty that first mesmerises Mr. Hallward who then tries to replicate his likeness onto the canvas. The painter falls in love with his own handiwork and also with the person who inspired it in the first place. He begins treating Gray as an artwork himself and develops a strange tendency to protect him from the prying eyes of the world lest he be "spoilt" by the exposure. Speaking of spoil and exposure, another important character, Lord Henry, Hallward's friend, is introduced here, who upon realising Gray's importance in Hallward's eyes grows...

Book Review: Esio Trot by Roald Dahl

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This book is about a jolly old man called Mr. Hoppy who hold only two things very, very close to his heart: his various plants that he grows in his home garden and Mrs. Silver who lives in the storey just under his balcony and who he falls absolutely in love with. The problem, however, with this happy love story is that his beloved Mrs. Silver has no idea how smitten the poor man is with her. The reason for this is that Mr. Hoppy happens to be a shy man and doesn't manage to say a lot to the lady other than the usual polite conversations that these two share while standing on their own separate balconies. How very sad indeed! Another obstacle that Mr. Hoppy is faced with is Alfie the tortoise who is the sole  object of Mrs. Silver's affections. She adores her pet tortoise so much and cannot seem to get enough of it. She carries it around with her all over the house, keeps it in a comfortable little hut made just for it, feeds it all sorts of nice vegetables, and says nice...

Book Review: Fantastic Mr. Fox by Roald Dahl

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Roald Dahl is one of my most favorite children's authors ever. Today I borrowed this lovely book from my niece to read and thoroughly enjoyed reading it. This is a story of a brave fox, his wife and their 4 baby foxes. They live happily under a tree in the jungle by a village. Mr. Fox takes good care of his little family by going to the village farms and bringing food from their by stealing hens, turkeys and geese. In fact, there happen to be three particular not so gentle men of whose farms Mr. Fox takes a liking to. They are called Boggis, Bunce and Bean. And these people, horrible as they are, do not approve of this even a little bit. Mr. Fox, however, proves to be a very clever young fellow and manages to take what he wants from them all the same. After some stealing sessions though, their patience fails them and they decide to hunt Mr. Fox down by surrounded his hole under the tree. Fox manages to evade all three of them and goes back deep into his hole but this makes them...

Book Review: Prem Chand k 13 Behtreen Afsaanay

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For those of you who don't know Urdu, this book claims to have the 13 best Short stories by Prem Chand, the famous Hindu Urdu writer of the Subcontinent. Following is the list of stories included in the book: 1. Kaffan 2. Sila e Matam 3. Baray Ghar ki Beti 4. Haj e Akbar 5. Nayi Biwi 6. Zaad e Rah 7. Do Bel 8. Eid Gah 9. Burhi Kaki 10. Sawa Seer Gehun 11. Insaan ki Qeemat 12. Chori 13. Pos ki Rat Prem Chand is one of those writers who exhibit the quality of writing both complox and obscure topics as well as about simple things in life simultaneously. And because of this reason, his writing is quite unpredictable. Most of his stories included in this collection have simple themes related to daily household issues faced by people which makes reading this book very interesting. He often makes the usual skirmishes between family members, whether they be husband or wife or brothers or sisters, the subject of his tales. Reading it makes you realize how good of an ob...

Review: Raja Gidh by Bano Qudsia

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I posted tgis review on Parhai Likhai's website as well. I'm sharing it here for the convenience of those who like to visit my blog to read book reviews 😊 A huge thanks to Parhai Likhai for sending me this beautiful book. I loved reading it so much! Here's my review of the book (It has spoilers. Read it at your own risk): The shortest way to describe this novel would be to say that it is a study in madness and death, and the correlation that these two enjoy, in living beings. I say living beings because humans are not the only subject of this book. As its name, Raja Gidh - The King Buzzard, indicates, it is as much about the quest for the reasons of madness in birds as it is about humans. And the way Bano Qudsia juxtaposes the two together is simply amazing. In fact, she does not just limit it to a mere comparison, sometimes the characters themselves metamorephose into either the greedy buzzards waiting for its prey to die and present itself as its hearty meal, a...